Tuesday, September 23, 2008

Reading

I am feeling a bit frustrated and need some ideas on how to deal with this. Let me start by saying that I have always read to my kids from the time they were little. I really think it is what helped them to read at an early age. They both are very good readers, they read at about a grade level ahead of what they are in. I love to read, I look forward to the part in my day when I can sit down and pick up my book. I haven't always liked to read. In fact if it wasn't absolutely required for a class, I wasn't reading. I am very sorry now, I am now getting to books I should have read in high school. It wasn't until I had Lexi and started to stay home that I started to enjoy reading. I have always hoped my kids would love to read. Well, Lexi absolutely hates it. Though her reading fluency is excellent her comprehension is not. She reads to get through the book and really retains none of what she read. And its really affecting her reading grade. They test daily on what they are reading, something called AR testing. They go to the computer lab, and this program is set up with questions to every book out there in there age group. Its pretty cool I think. Anyway, I have decided that Lexi and I need to sit down and pick a few books out in advance that she is interested in, that she can get at the library. I then will go and get the same book to read with her, and quiz her at home, well maybe not so much quiz her but talk about. Kind of like a book club for her and I. What do you fellow readers think? I think that Allison, you and your girls do this kind of thing already. I need to make it fun for her, I feel so badly that I have been so hard on her about this. I am just so frustrated with it. So I need all sorts of ideas on how to help her enjoy what she is reading and to get her to pay attention to what she is reading. She has no problem reading and scoring well on these tests when its for science and social studies, its just when it comes to her free reading time. I've talked with her teacher and she also thinks Lexi just doesn't like to read. She thought if I got her books on cd that she'd have to follow along with may help too. That to me seems soooo boring, I know I would quickly lose interest in that, and I pretty certain she would too. I also need some ideas of books that might be fun for her to read.

6 comments:

Wendi said...

Isabel is really into the Ramona books right now.

We've also talked about starting a little book club with a couple of friends so they could talk about their books, but haven't ever gotten around to doing it yet.

AllisonK said...

call me if you want, we can talk more.

I think that talking to her about the kind of books she is interested is huge step. My girls each like different genres. I think reading with her would be great. Asking questions about the different parts of the book you liked or disliked. Any dialogue is helpful.

We also like to go on book shopping spree's (go with a list). Coming back with a mountain of books just waiting for the next adventure is wonderful. I love the library, but I think having the girls know that these are theirs has added to excitement.

let's chat.

Nic said...

Oh my little lexi. I agree that the library is awesome, but if you can, buying the books for keeps is so much better. I know Em loves her book club books and she loves to read them over and over. I know, it's differnent when we are talking about a 4 year old.... but, she alreaady has her favorite genres too. So, is it possible to let her read the genres she's more intrested in... or maybe a ratio of 2 to 1 or something. Good Luck Dusty and let me know what works as we seem to follow your kids cycles almost to a "t".

Jessica said...

Let me know if you need any help and support from me. I can take her to a book store when we are on our weekly shopping trips - LOL. But seriously, get some tips from Allie and Montse and let me know what I can help with.

Unknown said...

Ditto, interest is a huge thing. I had big issues with comprehension too. I had to work extra hard, reread items until it finally clicked in. It got easier, but it's a lot of work at first.

Montserrat said...

My Sara is the same way. I think Lexi and Sara must have been twins at some point in time - they even look so similar to each other!

Here's some things that have worked for us:

1) Finding out what types of books she likes to read.

2) Reading with her. She'll read one page, I'll read the next. Sometimes I'll stop and ask her questions about what we've read or questions about what she thinks will happen. It helps her to focus a bit more.

3) Buying books AND making bookplates to put in them. This was something small but she loved designing the book labels herself. I was excited when she asked to make more. She had already accumulated that many books!

4)Sometimes watching a movie based on a book they want to read or have read is a great starting point.

5)Hands on Activities - Do something mentioned in the book!

Good luck!